Is there anything more important in life than the person you can share it with?
If you’ve been thinking about this, you’re probably itching to know how you can attract your dream relationship.
Believe it or not, this is easier than it sounds–but it might require you to change your current approach. Here’s why:
Do You Already Know What You Want?
If you don’t know what kind of a relationship you want, you’ll probably end up settling for something
that you don’t want.
Now, this might seem like a silly statement. You might already be thinking:
“But I already know what I want.”
Do you know what kind of personality you need your ideal partner to have? Do you have a specific set of values which you want them to live by and help you raise your children by?
Do you know what you want their attitude to be about money? About raising children? Do you know which of these standards you’re flexible on and which ones are just preferences?
Most importantly, do you have a clear idea of what kind of person you’ll need to become in order to attract this kind of partner and to make the relationship work?
If you don’t have these specific questions answered, it’s probably time that you get a clear picture of what you’re actually aiming at.
Otherwise, you might end up finding someone you’re crazy about and trying to figure out what you want out of the relationship after you’re already hooked on him or her.
But if you know what you want, you’ll have a clearer picture of what changes you need to make to attract your ideal partner and to make the relationship a great one.
That’s where the next step comes in.
Do You Already Have What You Want?
If you don’t already have what you want in your romantic life, there can only be one reason: What
you’re doing isn’t getting the results that you want.
If you look at most people’s lives, you’ll find that the results they’re getting are usually consistent with the methods they’re using to get those results.
Almost everyone wants something that they don’t already have, and because they’re unwilling to get out of their comfort zone they usually go on wanting it … but never having it.
If you want to attract a relationship that is more exciting and amazing than what you have right now, you
have to get out of your comfort zone.
This means going to the places where your potential mate might hang out, talking to people whom you don’t know, and making sure all areas of your life are consistent with the kind of relationship that you want.
The sooner you start to do this, the more attractive you and your lifestyle will be to your potential partner when you meet.
So Where Do You Start?
Now, in case all of this sounds overwhelming, here are a few things that you can do to start:
Sit down right now and WRITE DOWN all of the things that you MUST have in your ideal relationship.
Then write down all the things which would be nice to have but which aren’t necessarily “deal breakers.”
Finally, write down all the things you can do to prepare yourself for attracting this kind of person.
In other words, if you want someone who’s physically active and interested in cultural things, start exercising more and start getting involved in some cultural events in your city.
These steps ought to be enough to get you started … and they might be all that you need to do to get what you want.
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